Wisdom

Self-Love craves ritual: Here’s why

Listen: Or read: Ritual helps in all areas of life. When I was a little girl I actually liked going to church — and not Sunday school either… like sit in the pews, sing the songs, kneel, sit, stand, prayer and even sermon. Although organized religion isn’t something I practice, I learned in my 30s Read More

Choosing you: How we choose self-love

Listen: Or read: For a long time, I thought that if I had just accomplished enough, did things perfect enough, or looked right, I would get big, warm, fuzzy feelings of self-love. I just had to be proud enough of myself and sweep enough of my faults under the rug. In all my talking to Read More

What is self-love? {Short Video}

I know we want to believe that self-love is just a bunch of warm, fuzzy feelings… But it starts with choice. MY definition: Self-love is a practice of consistently choosing you. #whatisselflove What is self-love in less than 2 minutes…

Tapping into your Intuitive Knowing

You have intuition. Life may have beaten you out of using it, and it still lives there in your gut. We are born with wisdom in our DNA. It’s generations of wisdom built into our cells with the power of our spirit part of us. You know, even when you don’t know. At the center Read More

Being Curious of the Unknown

The unknown is a scary thing. I talk a lot about this in Inviting Shift under Something Ain’t Right. There’s a lot of fear for those of us who like to know exactly what point B is, what it looks like, what it will feel like and so much more we imagine with a vision. Read More

Courage & The Warrior

Courage. It’s the choice we make when we know it’s right, even though it may be the hard. Sometimes when women come to me for coaching, they think I’m going to be able to see them through the feelings to the point where it will feel easy. My program is simple steps, and that doesn’t Read More

Visualizing Intention

We judge ourselves often. In fact, we’ll even judge ourselves for things we aren’t responsible for. We take responsibility even when we feel like we did everything right. Why? Because we take responsibile for the outcome, even though the only thing we can control is our intention. Today, I want you to shift your perspective Read More

Visualization & Ritual for more Self-Compassion

Self-Compassion is one of the keys to self-love. We don’t get to self-love by being hard on ourselves and yet almost every woman I know will tell you they are often hard on themselves. They feel without shaming themselves, they may never get anything done. I’m here to tell you that shaming yourself only makes Read More